Much better living arrangement here. There's more space, it's quieter, and the only real complaint is the cats, which isn't really a complaint at all. Mal and Sammy seem to be tolerating each other for the most part. I was really worried that Sammy was going to be a big poop head when it came to getting along with Mal since this marks the first time he's ever had to live with another cat. I am surprised that Sammy seems to be completely content and at ease and I've only heard of him hissing once so far. Mal on the other hand doesn't really like Sammy, despite Sammy being really laid back and acting very passive/non-alpha. The few times I've seen the two of them in close quarters Sammy just lies on the ground and looks really calm and relaxed, and Mal is hissing and growling at him. I can't blame him, this is his house after all, and Sammy is something akin to an invader. I'm sure it will settle down though, Mal just needs to realize that Sammy is a non-threat. I just wish I knew how to get him to realize that. Anyway, I really hope Mal relaxes a bit, I really want him to be happy and relaxed like Sammy has been, and really hope it happens soon, for everyone's sake.
Had a good talk with ex-roommates. I think things will be fine now. We seem to get a long fine when we're not living together, and I think that over time we can be friends again. Me and my friend that is, I really doubt I'll ever want to see or talk to his wife again - even in the talk we had there was an air of "she did nothing wrong" even though the entire situation was completely her doing. I still can't believe how blind he can be to her lies, manipulations and craziness. Oh well, that's love I guess. I'm just happy that he's happy, even if that means I don't get to see him as much as I would like. /sigh
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